Isaac Mwaniki Rewa

The Philosopher is the author of these wise and timeless words..."Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves". Ecclesiastes 4:9 - 12.

These words have been used by many people to describe the a situation of marriage or any close relationship. While this is true, it is not a complete picture. Companionship will always win over loneliness and solitude. It is very important to involve other people in our lives. Whether it is in the context of a relationship or marriage, there is need to involve others in our lives. Loneliness is a state that God never ordained for anyone. We were created to enjoy each other's company. This entails a teachable spirit and a willingness to learn from other people. It includes what Paul admonished us to, "in humility view other as better than ourselves". Accountability is virtue that is seriously missing in our world today as people feel they can walk it alone. We need to open  our lives and be vulnerable to other people. That is how another person can sharpen us just like, "Iron sharpens iron".

For all in committed relationships, let us seek what we can give more than what we can receive. We also need to be open to learn from other people and be willing to introduce new perspectives to our lives.

Finally one can not walk alone in life without God. We must always choose to walk with the Lord as "two are better than one".